We talk a lot about romantic breakups. We talk about leaving toxic family members. But there's one type of ending that nobody really prepares you for, one that doesn't get nearly enough attention: friendship breakups. Today, I ended a friendship with someone I considered my best friend. And honestly? It might be one of the hardest things I've done in a long time. Here's what I've learnt after 11 years of healing from narcissistic abuse, the patterns don't just disappear when

Imagine arriving at an Emergency Room with a life-threatening, bleeding wound, only to have the doctor lean in and say, "But have you considered that the person who did this to you was probably just very stressed and had a difficult upbringing themselves?" In that moment, the physician is not being nuanced or balanced; they are being dangerously negligent by prioritising the hypothetical motives of an attacker over the immediate survival of the patient. This is exactly what h

Today marks 11 years since I went no contact with my narcissistic mother. Eleven years since I made the hardest, bravest, most life-changing decision of my life. Eleven years since I chose myself. I call it my Independence Day . Not in sadness or regret, but in celebration; a recognition of my strength, my healing and how far I've come. November 21, 2014. I can still remember the weight in my chest, the fear, the guilt, the voice in my head screaming that I was making a terr

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Today marks a profound milestone in my life: the 10-year anniversary of going no contact with my narcissistic mother. This decade has...