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The Reflex to Excuse Abuse: How Society Fails Survivors
Imagine arriving at an Emergency Room with a life-threatening, bleeding wound, only to have the doctor lean in and say, "But have you considered that the person who did this to you was probably just very stressed and had a difficult upbringing themselves?" In that moment, the physician is not being nuanced or balanced; they are being dangerously negligent by prioritising the hypothetical motives of an attacker over the immediate survival of the patient. This is exactly what h
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Dec 21, 20255 min read
It's Not a Trend- It's Survival: Why Dismissing No Contact Harms Survivors
I've heard it countless times in the past few years: " Going no contact is just a trend, " or “ Everyone thinks their mother is a...
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Jul 20, 20254 min read
The Price of Speaking Truth: Why I Won't Let the Trolls Win
When I first started sharing my story about surviving narcissistic maternal abuse, I thought the hardest part was behind me. I'd already...
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Jun 30, 20255 min read
The Light That Never Fades: Honouring My Aunty Angela’s Legacy 32 Years Later
I want to share a story about love, loss, and the quiet heroes who shape us—even in the briefest moments. This week marks 32 years since...
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Feb 8, 20253 min read


Finding Your Voice: Overcoming the Silence of Childhood Trauma
As someone who grew up with a covert narcissist mother, I know firsthand how challenging this journey can be. When I think back to my...
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Jan 29, 20252 min read
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